Usually, if you’re doing all the things I said, you ask a girl for her number and she gives it to you. Sometimes you ask a girl for her number and she says something like, why so fast? or let’s talk on kik.
DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME. Don’t reply to anything but a number. If a girl is reluctant to simply text you, how eager do you think she’ll be if you eventually get her out on a date with you? Be glad that this happened so you don’t waste any more time. You want to spend your time with people who are excited to spend time with you.
Don’t be discouraged by a response like this. I have noticed that hot girls actually give out their number easier than fat girls. Perhaps fat girls think they have to play hard to get or are reluctant because of insecurities. It doesn’t matter. Don’t blame them – don’t even worry about it. Just move on. I’ve said it before, the beauty of Tinder is that there are a hundred more girls right behind her.
The point is, don’t waste your time. Don’t apologize and don’t beg. Usually I just don’t respond. On two occasions, a girl said something along the lines of why so fast? I didn’t reply and hours later they just sent their numbers. Usually you should just not reply, but if you want to have some fun with it, here are some options:
If a girl says message me on kik: That’s ok, I’ll just fax you instead. If she says I don’t like giving out my number: That’s ok, if you’re that uptight about giving out your number we probably wouldn’t get along anyways. (This is brutal. Women want to think that they’re spontaneous and free-spirited). Of course, these things don’t result in you getting a number, they’re just fun sometimes.